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It's simple: spend more quality time with your little one

When they are young, you may think that you have a Instead of stressing about how many minutes you will
long time before they reach their teens. At times, share with your little ones, think of ways to make those
especially during difcult times, time seems to stand still. minutes memorable. One way is to schedule quality
Inevitably, time passes and often seems to y by. Savour time. This can include going to the movies together,
all the precious moments you have together. It’s a rush those moments of chatting while you are driving them to
to get children dressed, to make sure they have brushed their ballet practice, serving ice cream sundaes that
their teeth, to get them into the car, to take them to day they have helped to make, playing the games they like
care, to provide their meals, to bath them, and to get with them, or even having a spa spoil and manicure
them to bed. You might just have enough energy to together.
drag yourself to bed at night, only to restart the routine
next morning. This routine can be perpetuated as If you think the effort is not worth it, then imagine the back seat of
birthday after birthday passes. One day you realise that the car empty, their bedrooms empty, and their toys covered in
dust. Obviously, you can’t slow down time, but you can optimise
your four -year -old is now 16.
the time you spend with your little ones. Therefore, instead of
focusing on quantity time spent with them, focus on quality time.
No matter what parental philosophy you follow, there is a
They will remember those moments, just as you will.
single truth in all of this: your little ones need to spend
quality time with you. Your children need to see who you
are, and to see how you live your life. On the ip side,
they will assist you to better see yourself.

Consider all the time your little one is spending in the
care of others − the day care, while they sleep, when
they play at a friend’s house, and other times they spend
away from you. You may then begin to value the time
that remains to you, when quality time comes into play.

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